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John,
I have not so far gotten any E-mails from Larry with links to summer festivals and events
that are on tomorrow nor has he E-mailed me at all since I saw him last week, so I hope that
he’ll be okay that I just want to do the walk at Deas Island Park. I don’t want to write to
Carol just to have her write back saying that she doesn’t think negative about me and then I
still have to move on. If I write to Carol to see if she responds and says that she doesn’t
think negative about me, how could I believe that she’s telling me the truth incase she might
still think negative about me after I’ve had my closure? Now putting a closure to our
relationship by sending a couple letters back and forth won’t solve things seeing how I still
won’t go anywhere in South Surrey/White Rock anytime she won’t be in school even if I can be
sure that she is not thinking negative about me. I don’t want either Carol, her friend Holly, or
one of Carol’s daughters to see me with either you or Larry. Also, Carol knows just too many
other people who live in South Surrey that I know. And remember that I said to you before about
I don’t like it that her name is on her school’s website under the list of staff during the time
when I don’t have any contact with her. Again, I don’t want anyone to suggest that “her name be
taken off that site” because that won’t solve things either. Anyway, it just isn’t right that
Carol is employed at that school or that she’s providing support for other families
(outside of school) while she is not working with me.
I don’t take any responsibility for the altercation with Carol because I wouldn’t have had to
worry about Carol not using her common sense if my mom had took me seriously and bought the
amount of sunscreen that I asked her to buy for me. I wouldn’t have needed to phone them at all
if I already knew beforehand whether or not they had more sunscreen put away somewhere that I
could use. Up until the altercation with Carol however, I had wanted to make it through my life
without saying anything bad about Carol’s daughters or about anyone who Carol supports outside
of her family. And I feel bad that I said mean things about them in front of Carol...If I
could live with Carol someday, her daughters
just might’ve been who I would’ve had to look to for support eventually after Carol’s gone
seeing how Carol is older than both my mom and my dad.
Now about you writing a report immediately after having the same altercation with you that I
had with Carol and then you get fired...You said that the ministry wouldn’t pay Carol if she did
agree to support me again. Well, they didn’t fire her after she didn’t use her common sense so I
don’t see why they would stop paying her. If they did decide not to pay her however if she said
that she wanted to work with me again, then I’d want my mom and dad to pay for her to come.
In yesterday morning’s E-mail response, you wrote:
> ...Carol is not related to you and is not your family...
I remember we were thankful that Carol was a lot of support to us at the time when my cousin,
David, passed away which was one year after Carol started to do my respite. When I said to her
at the time that we don’t know what we would’ve done without her, she then said to me herself
that “we’re family.” Also, remember way back in
the E-mail I sent you on May 27th 2008
I told you that when Carol and me had our conversations about what goes on in each others’
families, when she told me about something that happened in her family and if she was talking
about either her own sister or one of her ex-husband’s sisters for example sometimes she
referred to them as “auntie so-and-so” instead of either saying her “sister, so-and-so” or
“sister-in-law.” And I also mentioned a few times in previous E-mails about the one time that
Carol sent one of us a birthday or a Christmas card in the mail and how she signed inside of it
quote “love Carol.”
On another note, remember that my mom and dad have been looking around for some new kitchen
chairs. I also told you about my dad wants to throw away the kitchen chairs that we have now
once we get new ones because he says that the old ones are trash but I thought that if we could
have them fixed up they’d be good to scatter at other places in the house. If I start to get
more use out of the one computer again that’s upstairs in the bedroom next to mine, then we
might want an extra chair in that room. Or if my mom buys a desk sometime in the future to put
upstairs in her sewing room, it might not come with a chair. And also my mom has one of the old
kitchen chairs sitting in her master bedroom right now outside the bathroom door. Anyway, my mom
and dad drove to the “Knock On Wood” furniture store yesterday after they dropped me off at your
place and they saw some casual kitchen chairs that they thought might work but they cost $188
each plus my mom told me that you also have to pay for the tax so now she and my dad might take
me up on my idea about refurbishing the old kitchen chairs.
Well, I guess now I should write to Larry though my message might not get to him until after
supper.
-Neil
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