To:	bubzulu@shaw.ca

From:

My ISP address

Subject:

Mom and me

Date Sent:

Friday May 8,2009

Message: John, You’ve now let me know that August 8th isn’t good for you because it’s your wedding anniversary, but you still haven’t told me after I asked you in the same previous message if next Friday (the 15th) is good with you because I have my dentist appointment on the day before (on Thursday). And in addition to these dates, is it okay with you if we go see Kris on Sunday May 17th? Now if Carol was still my worker, she probably would’ve given that day because I think she would’ve wanted to see my mom go to the wedding with my dad. I told you before that my mom doesn’t see our relatives as much since Carol stopped working with me. That was Judy who you heard come on the phone yesterday when my cousin, Jenny, was just about done recording her message. And it’s funny that you asked me in your previous response if I’m a second cousin again and then you said that it’s better than being a monkeys uncle after Jenny phoned us last Monday after supper (on the evening of May 4th), my dad answered the phone and told her his big news for that day...that he’s now a great uncle again so Jenny asked him what that makes her. He then told her that it doesn’t make her anything because she’s on the wrong side of the family. I haven’t gotten around to discussing this with you (via E-mail) since it actually happened last month that my mom wasn’t flexible about rescheduling our meeting with Brendan, the behavioralist. I know that he’ll be getting in touch with you soon if he hasn’t already. Now even though you said that it all got solved in the end after my mom wasn’t flexible at first about rescheduling, this can’t continue to happen and I told you that I don’t want to keep having fights with my mom. I think that this should be addressed, I told you that it didn’t go down without a fight when I wanted to change the meeting with Brendan because I slept horribly on the night before the day he was suppose to come and here are the other instances that I talked about in previous E-mails when my mom wasn’t flexible about changing things: • From the E-mail I sent you on Sunday Feb.8,2009 after the meeting that we had in Port Coquitlam on the previous Thursday: > ...I also wanted the meeting to be changed because my back was bothering me again. I went to go to the > bathroom at one point in the evening last Wednesday (the day before the meeting) and my back stiffened > up all of a sudden as soon as I leaned forward to go pee. That time my back was in so much more pain > than it ever had been before. • Remember the miscommunication that we had last December and I didn’t want Larry to come on the first day that he was suppose to hang out with us because I didn’t know that it had been set up until my mom said something to me about it on the morning of the day it was suppose to happen. I needed to have been told in advance that he was coming so that I would’ve had time to process the information, but I also wouldn’t have wanted you to come on that day if I could’ve had my way after I had three lousy sleeps in a row. I already had a hard enough time at first trying to talk my mom out of Larry coming here after I didn’t find out until that morning so I therefore didn’t want to then start a fight with her about rescheduling my visit with you. • My mom just couldn’t let it go that the first person didn’t work out. Of course she wasn’t being flexible after I told her that I wanted to try a different worker because the first one had a Volkswagen. • Remember that I had planned for you and I to have a Chinese dinner on Saturday Mar.1,2008 but then I wasn’t feeling well and wanted to postpone it to two days later, but even though she agreed to do so in the end my mom wasn’t flexible at first about changing it. And in the most recent of instances...Nothing to do with whether or not my mom was flexible about changing anything but she got me a stick of OMBRELLE brand “Face” sunscreen for me to try because she thought that a stick might be easier for me to use instead of that “HAWAIIAN Tropic” brand “baby faces” that I’ve been using. She got it for me one of the times when she was out just within the last few weeks and I could’ve tried it last week on Thursday Apr.30,2009 which was the day we took pictures at Crescent Park, but it was a good thing I decided to wait for a certain day to try putting it on because I knew that she would pick something to have a fight about when I put it on for the first time. I didn’t want us to have our fight on the day when I had planned to go to Crescent Park with you and I also didn’t want to have it on last Tuesday when I was suppose to go out with Larry, so I picked last Sunday (May the 3rd) to try on the new face sunscreen before you came here. The least that my mom could do after everything that’s happened (including the points that I talk about above) would be to just do the right thing and tell Carol that I want her to start seeing me again. I think that I deserve another chance with Carol after I almost faced the possibility of moving out, after I almost had to ride in a Volkswagen, and after everything that’s been happening just lately. And I told you many times before that I don’t want to live the rest of my life knowing that my mom will get away with it when she says “Carol’s not coming back” or my dad will get away with it when he says quote “she’s gone.” -Neil

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