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Hi Neil
Now thats a very detailed account of whats been
going on . I read your accounting on the event just before Christmas . Their definatley is a lot
to chat about on monday. Your more comfortable writing your thoughts and Im more comfortable
talking in person.One reason is I don't want to write something that you may disagree with .I'd
rather avoid that scenario and talk in person .One thing I can say is that abuse of any kind
(verbal or physical)is not acceptable.We have to find alternative ways to vent our anger and
learn what anger is . You could even google anger and research some of it yourself.I'm hoping
the meeting with the FVMH will open a pathway to healing some of the past events in your life.
Especially with your family . I'm concerned that you don't feel safe living with your parents.
This could be part of why you're having health and sleep problems . Its very hard on your mind
and spirit when you harbour negative thoughts for long periods of time . Dianne and I took a
anger management / conflict resolution course years ago . This really helped our relationship
and put us on the right path to resolute conflicts. Also no worries about negative comments made
about di and myself . Often when people are angry they say things they later regret . I'm glad
i'm still your friend ..
We can talk more in person on Monday about the
whole thing .Thanks for sharing your thoughts on all the topics .
Now on another topic my Camry is acting up . the
engine is running rough and some indicator lights came on .I'm going to bring it in on monday
morning .The only way i could see you on monday is if di drops me off and picks me up because i
dont think it would be ready b one oclock .another alternative is if i come on tuesday . Im not
seeing Scott that day as We're going to the valentines dance on thursday ..lemee know if that
works for you.
i checked out the links you sent me . that brings
back some old gaming memories,,lol,,
cheers for now,,,John
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